If you love a woman, how can you be ok with needing weeks of "alone time"?
Don't you miss your girl enough to contact her, especially after a fight?
Most Helpful Guy
If I'm in the relationship, I'll communicate in some way. but people need space sometimes. I'm an introvert (social but recharge by getting away) and need time away to recover (because my girlfriend would stress me out and I her).
we both agreed one time to take 1.5m off, retry. It doesn't work without some kind of effort to produce change. It just takes the crazyiness down to temporaryily... all the underlying issues are still there. Eventually I decided to end it and that took 6+ months to achieve. The tentacles of relationships run deep.
I remember saying to her more than once... love is not enough... I love her (the her I perceive is there, the tender child in her), but I didn't like her and the realtionship (the junk and pain and negativity... etc...). It was too much for me, in my state at that time to handle.
Most Helpful Girl
Everyone needs "alone time" it's not a healthy relationship if you don't spend time on your own at times. . I don't mean for weeks though.
After a fight, some people need to be alone to mediate and calm down until they clear their head , but this shouldn't be for weeks or days.0