Everyone fantasizes but even when we do we know that there are some things that aren't attainable. Being down to earth isn't fun all the time but it is necessary for a successful experience. That aside, what is something you want that you probably know isn't really possible?
A guy who won't really compare my body to other girls. Like when at the beach. I'm not where I'd like to be fitness wise yet, I like to lose 10-15 more lbs. But I know my boyfriend isn't blind and can see other hotter girls there. I don't know. I know its impossible to expect him not to, but that would be it.
I guess having a partner who only finds me solely attractive, but it's human nature for humans to find other people to be attractive. Other than that, the next one would be having a partner who is capable of being completely, emotionally vulnerable to me.
A partner that focuses more on investing money rather than spending money. For instance, furniture, an education, a house, a car, or a retirement fund are examples of investing rather than spending money.