Hello, I'm an 18 year old woman. And at this time in my life I feel more confused then ever. I've been in a relationship for almost a year and a half gave this man everything my whole life including moving away from everyone I know possible. Anyway, he lost his dad a couple months ago and so now our relationship can't be the same. He's careless now doesn't want a future and doesn't want really anything for us anymore. When we get in fights he gets physical with me now and i just don't understand. I feel like all I'm good for is a maid I feel brainwashed and sucked from the world. I don't even know myself anymore. I just don't understand. Is there anyone who can give me proper advice without any hateful comments?
If it started since his dad died, it certainly has everything to do with his father's death. He didn't know how to deal with it and he needs help to be the way he was before. But it seems that you can't help him, only professional people can do it. So, if he does not admit that he needs help and doesn't seek it, I unfortunately can't be optimistic about this whole situation.
Wow this suck in every way possible. He lost someone very close and that has thrown his life in turmoil. At this point he isn't himself mentally or emotionally. It is no excuses to turn away from you , especially to become violent with you. At this point you really should ask your self if you should start considering going back home and allow him to sort things out for himself , and then see if there is a y'all left
I guess because he lost a male figure in his life he feels like he has no direction and is taking it out on everyone close to him for his loss, no telling how long his grieving period will be but he should get some counseling
you need consultation with family and trusted friends
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