This is actually a series of questions. My boyfriend has developed a friendship with this girl he works with and I'm kind of on the fence about it. I mean I know he can be friends with whoever he wants. It still kind of bothers me a bit. They also text quite a lot. He does tell me when they are hanging out so I take this as a good thing -- he's not hiding their friendship. How often would you hang out with or text girls who aren't your girlfriend? Does she know and is she okay with it?
i don't text that much but if they text me i text back. if there is somethign to tell them i text them... but then i'm not a huge texter
as for hanging out it's not that frequent maybe once a month or once every two months and often times my wife is with us
i don't think it's so much about the frequency of the texting or hanging out as much as it's about the content of text and what they do when hanging out that should determine whether or not there is a problem
i text and hang out close female friends. if i wanted them i would have dated them. and i tell my Girl that. trust me and we be A OK. just like i trust that she won't do anything regretful with her guy friends.
i never understood how people can be in realtionships where its just Him and her (and no other friends of opposite sex) due to trust issuses. when the relationship ends. both people (or whoever couldnt have friends) is stuck begging everyone to come back into their life again lol