This guy is a few years older than me and is supposedly known as a player. He flirted with me, which I thought lightly of given his reputation. He also showed he knew what people said about him and seemed totally at ease with it. But later on he kept giving me attention and not others, acting genuinly interested and asking when he could see me again. If he keeps this way and doesn't try to go after other girls, should I give it a shot?
If I was looking for a fling I wouldn't hesitate but Im looking for something more serious now and want to know if it's a lost case. In that case I'd only remain friends with him since he's still a nice person either way.
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1. Someone will generally try to act on their best behavior when first dating. Just because he's not playing you now doesn't mean he won't.
2. I'm a believer in giving people a shot. He might be looking for something more serious now that he's already played the field.
3. If you give it a shot, keep an eye out for red flags. It's easy to ignore things when you're feeling "new relationship high" but if your gut tells you something is off or he shows signs of just being not right for you, listen to your instinct.1