Do I tell her now or wait a bit?

I've just started dating her for about 2 weeks, with about 2 weeks of communication on an online dating site. Problem is, I'm in the Army which she knows but I'm being deployed to the middle east in a couple of months. I just found out about the deployment and not sure if I should tell her about it right away or wait to see in the coming weeks where this new relationship might go. The deployment is for 6 months and I've seen many long term relationships end with such a long period of being away.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Better to tell her now. That is more respectful. Maybe she will still be available when you return and she is more likely to be interested if you have treated her right.

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What Girls Said 2

  • Do the decent thing and tell her, she'll appreciate it a lot more hearing it now, rather than later.
    It also shows you have more honesty in you as well.

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  • You should tell her right away.

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