All of my aunts are overweight and would be considered unattractive by society's standards (crooked teeth, chubby face) but ALL of them have handsome and rich husbands.
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Maybe they have unconventional beauty standards
Maybe their personalities are amazing and make up what they lack in physical beauty
Maybe they were hot when younger and just happened to age a lot worse than their husbands did.
Maybe you are underestimating their attractiveness while overestimating their husband's attractiveness.
Maybe... nope, that's all I got ¯\_(ツ)_/¯2