Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while (serious relationship) but I NEVER wanna have kids and never will. I have other plans I'm planning to have my own big hopefully suscessful comany and that would take a lot of hard work but I'm up for it. So therefore I wouldn't have kids and I just don't want to not only for that reason but that's one reason there's also a lot of other reasons. I don't know if my boyfriend wants kids tho? If he does I don't think this would workout so when do you think is the best time to talk to him about it? And would you marry someone like this? by the way I'm not sure if I'm even gonna get married I don't know yet
We don't plan on getting married yet or anything and we've been dating for a few months but from the start he said he wanted something serious
I think that maybe you're really young to even consider marriage or having kids. Especially if you're career oriented. But maybe right now, you may not want kids or think that you may ever have them. Who's to say that when you hit your thirties, you might decide to change your mind. But I think you're fine. If you're boyfriend wants to marry already and is thinking about kids, then maybe you shouldn't be with him. If he's only brought it up because down the road it's something he wants, then maybe think it over.
No I would not, I want kids (badly). You should talk about it to him mention it to him before things get to invested because if thats his goal a family then you two are not right for each other and its best if he has time to sort out what he wants ie you or a family.
I want kids and a wife. So heck no, I wouldn't stay with a girl if she was focused on becoming big. And Tell him as soon as possible. Why waste each others time? He could be looking for the right girl by now.