- My girlfriend of 2 years is shifting to her hometown permanently where this guy lives with whom she has already flirted with him and he is an a$$hole and treated her badly and she talks about him a lot.
- She has her hair done, straight hair , nails done etc, as if she is getting ready to impress someone, which i think is that guy coz she knows now she will be moving to her home town and when she meets me she just wears normal jeans and t-shirt and makes no effort to look good.
- Was our love just a drama? Did she make a fool of me? Was i just a backup guy in this city and she used me to roam and have sex and now she is done with me?
Note- she is a very flirtatious person.
If she making an effort to look good for him , like hair straightening and nails, then she has already made up her mind that she wants that guy. She wants that guy in her home town, your'e done bro, forget her.
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She won't leave you , she loves you. Stop overthinking.
You weren't her back up guy to begin with, but she's obviously developed feelings for this guy and wants to look good for him. If you don't end it with her, she'll probably dump you first because it sounds like she's moving back to her home town to be closer to him. I really hate it when this happens to people. I used to have a group of friends at secondary school, we all went out and had fun at ten pin bowling and laser quest. I'm not using any names but one of the girls was in a relationship with guy A bit then developed feelings for guy B, dumped guy A and went with guy B. Surprisingly enough neither of those relationships lasted long. Maybe she's not " the one" for you after all. I haven't had a relationship yet, when I hear about stuff like this happening. . . it kinda puts me off.
Too bad she didn't care for you enough to explain all this face-face & insure YOU were making plans for a replacement to soften the crash about to happen to your love life. Flirts are not exclusive, few friends & deep lovers - they have friends/shoes for every occasion and lifestyle, ergo - this ass is about to be used & abused until she cherry picks his connections & lifestyle for what she wants and leaves him to crash (like you) on her new path adventures away from him. Don't bother to write me back in defense of her, pal... been there, done that... and even after you crash, these types will come back and pick at your remains, so confident their flirts work on anyone, anytime, anyplace... RUN and thanks God you are free to find someone sane
It sounds like she is really going to give this Guy A... Try. However, She probably will find that the Grass is not Greener on the other side of the Faulty Fence and come back to you, Thinking that you will always be there to care, Mistaking your Kindness for Weakness. It's up to you, If you want to Stay and See what happens. The ball is in your court. However, If she is this Cheat Sheet, She can no longer be trusted. Good luck. xx
Whether she is actually trying to impress him or not, the fact that you're so worried about it means your relationship is basically hooked anyways. Stay together and you're just gonna become paranoid and possessive.
Well, if she has already started liking another guy then it's not a good sign and not good for the relationship. There is nothing you can do, it's her feelings so if she decides to leave you for another man then all you do is be prepared to accept that.
You may not like to hear this, but that's the truth.
However you said she is a very flirtatious person, so it's anyways better that you don't have such a person in your life.
Why do I think she is "insecure". She's one of those girls that needs to win a guy over with her "sexual prowess", but it is never enough, so she goes for the next one. ? Possible? If so, I'd say she is a wounded soul. The fact she digs a bad boy is another sign... she probably had a dominant, controlling dad and so she's drawn to that. wild guesses... based upon what I just heard.
Oh yea dude run. I had a lab tech whom I worked with and she had a legitimately good boyfriend, he was a police officer (not saying all police are good people).
I was single at the time and definitely gave off the player vibe. She was not appropriate at all and as the semester progressed she was dressing increasingly provocatively. She would even come into my station and flirt with me around my students (I was a teaching assistant at the time). One day I got mad and yelled at her in front of all the students, telling her to leave and not come back.
Anyhow, yes they do this. The more attractive they are, the more shallow they are.
In my experience, that whole "very flirtatious person" is bullshit. Girls know when the flirt and who they flirt with. On the other hand, I wouldn't get wrapped up in the idea of what you perceive to be flirting. Keep it in the back of your mind for now until you get some real evidence. Rooting for you.
Don't give her a chance to end it. You should just ignore her from this moment. If that guy is such an asshole and she's falling for him, let her. If you were that good to her in your relationship, she's gonna have a lot of regret when all you will be is happy. Just be a ghost. Like she doesn't exist.
Man stop being a drama queen. Just because she made efforts to look good it doesn't mean she'll leave you. Just put yourself in her situation, would you make efforts to look good if you moved to another city?
Girl want to look good for everyone , not just guy. She might want to look nice for her family or friend. Plus if a girl want to leave you, you can't stop her or do anything. Stop worrying and appreciate you have nice hot girlfriends
Just trust each other. That's the biggest part of any relationship. Trust. Many girls doll themselves up just to feel better or when meeting new people, if you've been with someone a long time you get comfortable with them and don't feel the need to doll up so much. Just relax man, only time will tell and if she cheats on you then you're better off without her.