- My girlfriend of 2 years is shifting to her hometown permanently where this guy lives with whom she has already flirted with him and he is an a$$hole and treated her badly and she talks about him a lot.
- She has her hair done, straight hair , nails done etc, as if she is getting ready to impress someone, which i think is that guy coz she knows now she will be moving to her home town and when she meets me she just wears normal jeans and t-shirt and makes no effort to look good.
- Was our love just a drama? Did she make a fool of me? Was i just a backup guy in this city and she used me to roam and have sex and now she is done with me?
Note- she is a very flirtatious person.
- If she making an effort to look good for him , like hair straightening and nails, then she has already made up her mind that she wants that guy. She wants that guy in her home town, your'e done bro, forget her.67% (30)70% (26)68% (56)Vote
- She won't leave you , she loves you. Stop overthinking.33% (15)30% (11)32% (26)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
You weren't her back up guy to begin with, but she's obviously developed feelings for this guy and wants to look good for him. If you don't end it with her, she'll probably dump you first because it sounds like she's moving back to her home town to be closer to him. I really hate it when this happens to people. I used to have a group of friends at secondary school, we all went out and had fun at ten pin bowling and laser quest. I'm not using any names but one of the girls was in a relationship with guy A bit then developed feelings for guy B, dumped guy A and went with guy B. Surprisingly enough neither of those relationships lasted long. Maybe she's not " the one" for you after all. I haven't had a relationship yet, when I hear about stuff like this happening. . . it kinda puts me off.3
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Most Helpful Guy
Too bad she didn't care for you enough to explain all this face-face & insure YOU were making plans for a replacement to soften the crash about to happen to your love life.
Flirts are not exclusive, few friends & deep lovers - they have friends/shoes for every occasion and lifestyle, ergo - this ass is about to be used & abused until she cherry picks his connections & lifestyle for what she wants and leaves him to crash (like you) on her new path adventures away from him.
Don't bother to write me back in defense of her, pal... been there, done that... and even after you crash, these types will come back and pick at your remains, so confident their flirts work on anyone, anytime, anyplace... RUN and thanks God you are free to find someone sane3