dont get me wrong- all these men want me- or in some way. Yes i know not every guy wants a relationship or wants something but i'll meet guys and they act really weird towards me. Some run away, or some like after an event just take off.. even though i've shown im interested in more. Recently a guy who was 'chasing me' ended up moving in with a crazy fat ugly lady and kept mind screwing me. He's talking about how she's controlling him, she's crazy, and he just wants to play games with me. I'm like really nice sweet laid back and super hot. It seems like most guys just want to mess with my head, or treat me like a fantasy- they won't get with me but fantasize about me. Even one guy years ago, we fooled around but later he acted weird and semi rejected me.
But he did say years later he'd fantasize about me-wtf does that mean? Some guy i began talking to on the internet- he started playing games then bragging about himself. I'm like hold on--i have a lot of good qualities but i dont brag about myself. These men act like theyre the prize catch? can someone explain this.. these guys act like women... and they treat me like im the man who has to 'keep them.' Worse im a beautiful woman? they don't care--all they do is act as if--they are the good ones and I have to prove to them im worthy of them... some of the weirdos who do this are ugly or have serious mental issues most of them.. can someone explain why guys are like this?
i have a friend who is a really pretty girl--really positive cool fun... same thing--men run away from her on sight and reject her.. its shocking b/c she is so pretty and so nice. why are guys so messed up and crazy
Most Helpful Guy
"… I have a lot of good qualities but I don't brag about myself."
"… and super hot."
"Worse im a beautiful woman?"
"… just because im pretty…"
"b/c im beautiful.."
I guess that my definition (and the dictionary's definition) of bragging and yours must vary. And you're obviously protecting your ego with all of that.
I'm guessing that you haven't figured out yet that the advice of making a guy chase you is a fallacy that will blow up in your face because all of what you describe is exactly what most guys who have any pride will do to get back at a woman who puts them through it. It's not a pleasant experience, especially if we really liked the girl in the beginning, so over time, our interest drops until finally we say you know what I'm going to show her who the real catch is.
I don't really do that now (it's a waste of time and I have better things to do with my time and better things to focus on than that) unless she just won't take a hint that she's turned me off then it kind of becomes a self-filling prophecy that I can't really help. Based on your post and your inability to cope with rejection, and your inability to consider the fact that your attitude and behavior might be the reason for which these guys are becoming turned off, I'm guessing that you would fall into that latter category.
Most Helpful Girl
first off, Men today are dysfunctional and not normal. The hostile responses from the people here are proof of that. They are bitter and they seem to dislike pretty women. Secondly, most guys are insecure and feel inferior to pretty women.
These guys have issues so do lots of people. They're just insecure people and probably narcissistic too. Try finding a decent guy who is educated and not insecure and has something going for him becoz these men don't1