Admittedly my initial response is that there is something wrong with me, however I have learned that maybe rejection isn't a bad thing, in the sense that I have been rejected by some ladies I was then later glad we didn't get together. I guess there can even be an up side to rejection. ;-)
I said not a match, but in all honesty there is an option 4. That is, as a guy, we have to get past your "bitch shield" to get a date or progress in relationship. It is easy easy for a guy to mess that up. we have to practice, develop confidence and learn how to approach and win over the girl. So when I bomb out at that level, I take it as my fault that I did something wrong and learn how to improve next time. Girls are going to make excuses to defend against guys, so I expect that.
i assume we are not just a match , most of times , but yea sometimes when i do something wrong i blame myself for it , sadly girls are much into the first impressions , they never give any guy some time to show up who really he is , so for a guy the first contact is the most important , so if he did something wrong , awkward or silly , she will have a bad impression and this means she will reject him. and also sometimes when the girl is thinking high of her self , when she knows that she can get better , richer or more handsome than me. she will reject me and may be i will feel that something is wrong or missing with me...
I only tried with two girls my whole life after they showed me all the signals that they wanted me. Then rejected me in the meanest way possible. So damn right there was something wrong with them not me.
I assume there is something wrong with her. I'm extremely attractive and amazing in many other respects, for her to reject me just makes it not only her loss, but also proves to me that she would not have been worth my time anyway.
I'm starting to think it's just bad luck. Also, that in romance and sex we don't control that much. Sometimes life just kicks your ass, and the best you can do is learn to thrive.
At first I'd feel not good enough for him and very moody, but later would contemplate out a conclusion that maybe we do not suitable to each other, or he simply not attracted to me and it's maybe not may problem.