I am currently talking to an older guy. He is 50 and am 25. I like him and I feel something could happen. I know am a virgin and have few dating experiences but I would love to try. The only thing that bothers me is that he has 3 kids, some of whom are the same age as me and 2 of them went to school with my brother and I...
What do you think? Am I over thinking or is this a bad idea?
Ok, so we decided I talked about it with him. I told him how I felt and thought we should remain friends. He was upset. He started telling me about my faults.. saying that I needed to be liberated and not worry about what people thought. He then apologized and said this
"I only wish that my deliberation will strengthen, encourage and en-power u , not discourage or stagnate u. In other words I am not dismissing our continued friendship"
I guess if you really like someone, and attracted to them age doesn't really matter, as long as he ain't married when you too are together I don't see what wrong with you too being together. You both are adults, it would be different if someone was in his 30s, or 20s dating a sixteen year old, but you guys are both adults.
Please girl friend, don't feed his ego because that's all a young girl really is to a guy that age. I don't even want to date a guy who's 50. They usually look like a grandfather to me. Do you really have that bad of daddy issues that you need to replace him with someone else?
No way. Kind of weird to me since he would be older than my dad. Also personally I wouldn't want to date a single dad especially at my age. Since you're bothered by him having kids and their ages in relation to yours, then maybe think twice about dating him.
No I would never. My age range is 3 years younger, 3 years older. Absolute maximum would be 10 years but no more than that for me to be honest. I wouldn't date someone who could possibly have fathered me lol. Just too weird for me.
it's up to you, we can't tell you what to do. as you can see everyone is saying no but again that's YOUR preference. he could just want you because he wants to have fun or because he genuinely likes you.
I am 16 and my ex was 23- obviously the difference isn't as big but considering I was so young it did feel that way. Love is love and at the end of the day age is just a number, so go for it and follow your heart. Good luck xx
Older guys date much younger girls for many reasons. One of them is being able to brag about it to their mates. It's a huge ego boost and while his friends are green with envy, such a guy feels like he hit the lottery. Knowing this, I would never date a guy that much older. I wouldn't trust that he's being sincerely with me because I would think he's doing it to impress his friends.
I have a crush on a guy in his 50s too, so probably lol