we are in 12th grade and have been together for 8 months. Thursday was his birthday and i was at a competition so i couldn't celebrate but i said i would this weekend but i found out he cheated on me! i wished him a happy birthday and posted a pic of us on instagram and he even liked the pic. i feel like we have a good relationship and i care about him unlike that girl who seems to barely know him! I've never met the girl but my friends are in a class with her and they said that my boyfriend always stares at her randomly and sometimes when she walks into class or walks by him he would look her way but they said they don't talk much. i found out he cheated because apparently he's been telling his friends at school about him and that girl and my friends heard him and his friends talking about it. from the way my friends described, it seemed like he doesn't feel guilty and i think he probably even feels a little boastful because he's talking about it even when my friends are within hearing distance!
i have a feeling i know why he did it but i want to hear what other people think.
- his friends probably think the other girl is more attractiveVote A
- he probably thinks the other girl is more attractiveVote B
- he probably likes you moreVote C
- he probably likes the other girl moreVote D
- he probably wants the other girl to be his girlfriend but doesn't know if she likes him backVote E
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From how I see it, you want to make sure that you hear what he will say about the other girl in front of you and it is also the best to find out if it's true that he stares at the other girl or how that girl thinks about him. If they ever had a communication besides staring and him talking to his friends, etc. Sometimes there's something about that girl that him and his friends were talking, but it's probably not that he likes that girl. I learned that sometimes even your friends can lie about things because they're jealous, don't know for sure everything. For instance, in the past my old friend lied to me about my crush liked a girl with a same named as mine, but when I had a friend asked that girl, she said it's only close friends when they hang out. Even recent, with a different crush, a friend said he has a girlfriend who goes the different church, but I still haven't found any pic of them currently dating and believe it or not, at church, my current crush is having signs of interest in me instead.0