That is all dictated by what level of trust I have for my girl. I trust my wife unconditionally. I know if said male friend were to try or say anything out of the way that she would not only shut dude down but she would tell me what was said or done. Some will say well if she put a stop to it herself what was the point in telling you anything? It's all mutual respect and open honesty. I didn't have to be told that it happened , but I would feel more at ease and happy that I heard it from her that someone else's distorted version of what actually took place
she's dating me. if thats her best friend, it means he or her already rejected the other most likely so im ok with the friendship and i will try to befriend the dude as well to make the relationship better for me and my girl.
Tbh i tend to avoid girls with guy friends. Especially if the guy is a bff with the girl or if she has many guy friends ( possibly outnumbering their girlfriends). May be ny experience but these girls tend to have boundary issues with these "friends" and when you call them out, she will just say its her friend and get angry. Ill just dump then and there when that happens. Also a lot of them tend to be drama queens. There are too many girls who are only casual friends with guys or even have no real guy friends, out there, to have to put up with this shit...
This new idea of a girl having a guy has a best friend is ridiculous. Girls can share female secrets with guys not because guys would listen but they wouldn't understand. I wish I had a girl as my best friend plus my wife. It would hide the older concept of, "fooling around." That's sarcasm people so don't yell at me but I think that is what a best friend of the opposite sex really is what turns out to be
Yeah I mean just her friend. We have female friends would you be ok with her telling you to not have female friends. I'd be fine with it. Relationship required trust. Works case she will cheat if she wants to cheat, her male best friend or not. Unlikely if she was to cheat it'll be her best friend.