We met when I started going to school in Austin. He's from there but I'm from San Antonio. Now I'm home for the summer and we haven't seen each other since late April (but we text all the time). I was supposed to be in Austin during the first week of June but my plans fell through. Should I go ahead and let him sleep with other people? I probably won't be in Austin again until August and I'm not sure it's realistic to have him wait for me. He loves sex just as much as the next guy and I just don't want him to resent me.
Thanks! P. S. Not sure this makes a difference but September will be our one year anniversary.
He sounds like a pathetic person if he can't wait. It's not like you want to withhold it from him and that you want it just as much as he does. So it's not fair if he satisfies his needs but you're left out to have no pleasure.
Really, you would let/allow your boyfriend to sleep with others just cause been apart physical what, so far just 1 month? Im crazy passionate myself, but I gone over a year without sleeping with anyone in a long distance relationship. While I get it that not everyone can be patient sort of and many no doubt are just simply shallow, I certainly wouldn't say its unrealistic to have him wait until August. You can of course please each other in different ways, sexting, skype/cam stuff etc.
If he truly cares for you, loves you, then he won't want to sleep with other women. And you wouldn't want him to. Build some higher respect for yourself. You deserve a man who wants and will stay true to you. If he doesn't, then he's not a good catch... release him back to the sea.
Absolutely not. If you're in a relationship with someone you're with them. If he "resents" you for not being there to have sex with him, then he's not the right guy. If you are in a committed relationship you should both be able to wait for each other. Yes, sex is a huge part of a relationship and I love sex just as much as the next person as well. But the wait will be worth it :-)