Women are shallow as fuck m8. Theyll reject you for having a smudge on your shoe. Theyre hypocrites too. They tell you shouldn't judge a woman on looks and all that shit then they go and do the exact same to men. Im tall and dark and good looking so women hardly ever rejected me growing up. My pal was small with hair that a whole tub of gel couldnt control. He had an annoying laugh as well but was generally a nice guy. Some of the treatment he got off women was bang out of order. Openly laughing at him when he approached, taking his drinks all night then telling him to fuck off. It was scandalous. He got fed up trying. They absolutely judge on the most superficial level
Not only the way you look, the way you behave. You should try to look as good as you can and to act confident. Confidence = sexy. A good looking man who has 0 confidence will most likely be left without a date.
I think that it depends upon the age of the female. I have always dressed well. I like European designer clothes, shoes, watches, etc. I looked okay, too: blond, green eyes, martial arts and army physique. Despite that, I was almost unable to get a date before I was about 30. The females in the 15 to 25-30 age range wanted sociopathic bad boys who had long hair and looked as though they slept in the park. At the time, it tore my guts out. Now, I see it as their loss and that I dodged a bullet.
I wish it didn't but it does. I wish that people didn't judge people's class, personality, or intelligence with the way you dress, but unfortunately it is so. Yeah, it matters. Although, for some women, it doesn't matter, which is nice...
Yeah, obviously... I walked into the dinner with my brother and mother this morning... Instantly 3 women were staring at me... One was looking me up and down and give me dead on confident eye contact. The hostess picked me to ask how many to seat. The bus girl was smiling at me and listening in on my conversation the entire meal. 3 women at other tables with larger parties were paying a lot of attention to me during my meal listening in on my conversation. Your looks and how you carry yourself will determine who notices you and how people judge you. That ultimately will determine how successful you are on a cold approach.