For several years now one of my used to be "close friends" liked a boy. I say "used to be" , as now we are nothing like as close as we have been for the 8 years of our friendship. Anyhow she liked him for around 3 years and I tried to support her in that. For the past year she has moved on (they never properly dated but things went down hill between them- he expressed a strong dislike for her) but I am still friends with him. She always expressed that she would never be happy with any of her friends getting close to him.
I have come to like him and I have reason to feel he is returing those feeling as of recent ( More light physical cues etc.). She has moved on and has liked other people since then , but I still have my doubts. I really want to tell him, and it isn't the end of the world if she dislikes me for that ( since we aren't that close anymore) , I'm just worried that I'm doing the wrong thing.
Me and him are really good friends but I want it to be more. I can't really walk away from the situation. Is it wrong to tell him and start somethng?
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No, it's not wrong to tell him how you feel.1