What will it take for a guy to steal kisses from a girl?

when you know you're either get slapped or maybe responded to? what gives you the courage to do that? lmao... just curious what's going through your mind. I had guys steal me a kiss before and one of them got punched in the face. lmao!

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i was 7 when this 7 year old boy who was my classmate kissed me without saying anything! I was a tomboy and man I punched him right away!
okay so this friend of mine and I were upstairs filing. we've known each other for 4 years. he was helping me file. suddenly he just came close to me and kissed me. it was short but hey my friend just kissed me! he told me before that he's dying to.

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What Guys Said 10

  • A boy steals kisses whils a man discusses how much he wants to do so to your face and reacts to your smile when he does so. What it takes is a man and seduction from a woman not an unexpectation that goes against social conventions such as stealing a kiss.

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  • I don't usually partake in sexually harassing women. Any guy that takes a 50/50 shot and walks up to a girl and kisses her without her permission or the knowledge that her permission would be granted if he did, has issues.

    I mean if you are getting involved with a girl and you feel that there are signs of interest, I will test the waters and see if she will allow me to kiss her. I've never been wrong. But, just walking up to a girl with no idea if she'll be interested or not and just kissing her? No that's just creepy and like I said sexual harassment.

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  • Well, some of us are just immature and don't control impulses well. and maybe you are just irresistible!. Some combination of those things...

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  • What gives us the courage? One sex had to develop the courage to actually go out and get sh*t done, otherwise the human species would still live in the caves just sh*tting their pants.

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    • Lol. okay why do you steal a kiss from a girl?

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    • You'd be surprised how much your senses betrays you when the guy knows the game.

    • Such eloquence... xD

  • i wouldn't kiss a girl unless she was hinting like mad... but then again I might be too slow to notice the hints lol.. she would probably have to pull a quick one on me

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  • i think any 1 who does tat to a girl is a sad perv.its not the slap I would b afraid of.i have respect.

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    • So what if it's only my friend or boyfriend. they are not pervs. I would slap some1 I don't know who would try to do that and I don't even like or know them.now those are pervs. :) tnx anyways!

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    • Well there right. to but it simple you are very beautiful.

    • Aww thanks... :)

  • It isn't necessarily about that at that point. Instinct maybe?

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  • I'd never do it. Seems liable to get you assaulted, and rightly so. It's just plain disrespectful.

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  • He's not in a relationship with you and he just kisses you? WTF? That's just f***ing weird. The only time I would kiss a girl is if we we're involved, it's not something you do to a coworker or to any one just out of the blue unless your a pervert.

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    • He's my bestie. so it's cool but that's a first he did after 4 years we have been friends. :)

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    • Dont worry, he just kissed me - a smack. he's my bestie and h's a great guy. thanks for your concern.

    • Someone's wound a little too tight. A kiss does not warrant the police. You never get anywhere with taking chance.

  • I don't think I have ever done that.

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What Girls Said 5

  • yeah I only let my boyfriend kiss me. most guys I have met usually don't do that, I 've never had a guy steal a kiss except if he was my boyfriend then yes I'd let him kiss me but not some random dude.

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  • I don't think there is any harm in stealing a kiss, your aunt Betty does it, your parents do it to you all the time, now imagine someone of the opposite sex doing it... much hotter then aunt Betty. I think most women would agree that they wish boys would try to steal a kiss, no more then a kiss, I mean stealing any other bases is strictly off limits, but i think attempting to steal first base is hot. And most women will still react civiliy and with good humor if you attempt to steal a kiss and she doesn't want it. She will maybe at first go "Woe! What are you doing?" but then she will back pedal and realize that you didn't intend any real harm and say "It's ok, I just don't feel that way about you." There is this annoying catch 22 to femenism. Yes while it grants us freedom from things we don't like, it can also make us very lonely, because we have scared them from ever doing anything even vaguely romantic or spontaneous, for fear of how we will interpret it. I think that perhaps the best thing to do, the happy medium, is to find out from one of her friends that can be trusted to keep a secret, how she thinks the girl you like would react to you trying to steal a kiss. That would probably be your safest bet. From the kiss receiver's perspective, still spontaneous and romantic, but from the kiss giver's perspective, they know it will be safe.

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  • Hormones...

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  • Hahahaha! Well being 7, that sounds fair haha.

    My ex and I were hanging out watching TV, and when the show was over, he asked me what I wanted to do. We were just goofing around and stuff, and I could kinda tell that he wanted to kiss me, but I didn't want him to. And because it caught me way off guard when he actually did, instead of kissing him back I pulled away and asked him why he did that. But we had just been talking about when we first got together. So in hindsight I shouldn't have been surprised that he was put out by my reaction, lol.

    I think a stolen kiss depends on who's the guy. With my ex, I had mixed feelings about him in general so it wasn't so bad. But I remember when a former guy friend started backing me into a corner trying to convince me that I wanted him...that p*ssed me off. I was sooo ridiculously mad at him because he thought I was just lying to myself. What a jerk! Lol.

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  • My crush kissed me when I was TOTALLY not expecting it.. O HGATED it cause I EALLY lied him & I did not know him very well & I wanted to know him better since I was planning on hanging with him & I ad never kissed anyone before.. I felt like their was a gift in the balance of power , which is NOT cool when you are trying to be friends with someone.. & Honestly, even just a LITTLE warning, like looking into my eyes for more than two seconds - would be good.

    I think steeling a kiss, or GETTIN ONE stole is real fun if you already know the person, but if you do not at least for me it is too nerve racking & honestly , my body is not open to public access, really f yo think about it it is just wrong.. I do not think it compensates cause you CAN punch someone.. I really do not want to be put in that position in the first place.. I no more want to slap a random person than I want fir them to KISS me, so NOW I have TWO offense put on me at once. - in your case the kid was 7 & kids go by a different set of rules.

    That punch to a little kid, is part of the LEARNING SOCIALLY EXCEPTABLE behavior. hopefully by 20 you get that putting your moth and strangers is a bit unacceptable unless they have sort of given you a signal.

    Anyways, any guy that has to STEEL a kiss, is likely not KISSING someone who wants to be kissed.

    I really do not find it romantic.. If a guy or girl, can't have enough confidence to LOOK at me let me know what you want to do, cause you are too WORRIED I might bolt, than perhaps you should o work and your confidence issues..

    I f you like a person & they like you & you want to surprise them, I THINK just the fact you WANT to kiss them is surprise enough.

    ^ My thought on it anyways*

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    • We were both 7 okay.. he was a meanie and I was a tomboy. we were sent to the principal's office and my dad said he was lucky it was me who punched him. come on I'm only 7! :)

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    • I don't let strangers kiss me unless he's Brad Pitt sure LOL

    • I'd maybe let the guy inMotorcycle diaries kiss me. lol

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