I am so scared, she's gonna have a baby and I don't how to deal with that thing, or how to nurture it you know.
Most Helpful Girl
I'm not going to scold you for the same "hey your an idiot for not wrapping it!" Condemnations and criticism, not what this site is supposed to be about.
So here's my advise, relax first and realize your not the only one in this position as she's probably feeling similar stress. Be open with her about your feelings, calmly talk with her and decide how you'll go about being a parent and raising a baby. It's unavoidable now. You will be a father, best to just accept this and accommodate it, and her in your life
I've had a couple girlfriends in this position myself and one relationship post birth worked out ok and he and she were able to have a good parenting relationship and keep their everyday life on track. The other one involved the guy pussying out, and he was the one who was served child support papers.
Stay calm, reassure her and realize that this isn't the end of the world but rather. New beginning of a chapter in you, and her life, how you handle it, and your child will determine the outcome of everything between your child as a father in the end.
Most Helpful Guy
Mate, there's really nothing you can do but start gearing up. start making choices. in my tradition, start making wedding plans, and getting your financial needs in order. at least you have time. i had to recently answer a question to some girl that told her ex about it when she was right on the verge of popping the baby... no time to prepare. you have time, use it wisely and good luck.3
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