my new boyfriend is really really shy to initiate sex and does not talk about it at all. Not at all. He is really shy even though he wants to get intimate, his heart seems to be racing even for initiating it. How can I reduce his shyness and bring us to more talking it out and in action? I think he is shy because he wants to be respecting of my culture.
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I would say that's true to some extent, lol :) My boyfriend at the beginning of our relationship was treading lightly when we first got together because I think he was nervous that he might be moving too fast. I'm a pretty shy girl so of course I wasn't going to initiate anothing, lol :P I eventually just told him that I wanted to move things along & he gladly accepted ahaha :P I guess don't wanna seem too eager or pushy about it, you know? Sometimes guys get a bad reputation when they don't respect a girl's space/boundaries :) I appreciate how considerate he was!! :)1
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