What do you guys think?
I was talking to my friend yesterday about this guy I'm thinking of seeing. We've been talking for a while and have a lot in common. He seems really genuinely nice. I really like him. However, when I told my friend she kind of went like "He's my sisters age!". The guy I'm talking to is 32, and I'm 26 (will be turning 27 in august).
I personally don't think it's too much of an age gap. My ex boyfriend was 31 and my ex before him was the same age. I don't know why my friend was kind of being judgy about it. I feel like it's not that big of a deal.
I've lived on my own, I have my own car, I have a career. It's not like I'm underage or anything. I personally don't think it's a big deal. Now I do tend to look younger than I am. I'm curious to hear what you all think!
Most Helpful Guy
Above 18 it's not about the number anymore: it's about the same phase of life
Most Helpful Girl
There is such a thing as too big a gap. I class it in two ways - 1. Are the lifestyles too different? This more applies to a couple where one half had a job and a car etc and the other is at uni and partying etc. The two lifestyles don't mesh.
2. It looks creepy. Obviously referring to like 20s and 60s. But again that will have elements of 1. In there.
After that, it's what your comfy with. If you are cool with it go for it. I have a friend who has just turned 20 and she is with a recently divorced mid 30s man. I think it's too big a gap due to lifestyles but they are happy to fair enough.
You get judged in life for everything. That's why every decision should be your choice.1