I went on a date last night it went well he was nice cheeky chappy type , he even kissed me and asked me to meet him again tomorrow. He asked if I wanted to go to his place but I told him not yet as I want to get to know him lots first and I don't want him thinking I'm looking for sex hook ups he said nor is he , I noticed he's still on the dating site which is ok and he messaged me this morning telling me he had a weird women sending him messages etc... Anyway we chatted and he said he will talk later as he's at work , I've been out all day and I noticed he had called me and then messaged me telling me he's back home from work and is going for a sleep because he's back at work later. I thought why tell me? I'm very suspicious about men I meet I instantly think he's messaging me to tell me this because he's probably not sleeping and with someone else !! I wish I didn't think like this it's because I've been cheated on before I've lost trust do you think I'm over Thinking? I feel I can't trust
Most Helpful Guy
its totally ok, your past experience was very bad and hurting for you thats why your overthinking it, he told you that because he was thinking that if you called him or messaged him when he was sleeping then you might get worried or think something else if he didn't replied thats why he told you1
Most Helpful Girl
Yes you are bc everything is fine. if he was talking to someone else instead of sleeping, he wouldn't have told you what he was doing if you never asked. He is just the type of guy to let you know what he is doing sometimes. Trust me he is interested. He is keep in close contact with you. So please try not to think too much bc you could be wrong.
I know its hard to trust guys and can be paranoid, but you just met this guy. Give him a chance to show you can trust him. At the same time, he is still single and can do what he wants. So just enjoy your time with him, and if he tells you what he is doing, just believe it. Because one thing you don't want to do is start questioning him or assuming anything esp this early on.
Just think positive and when you start to get the urge not to trust and want to say something, think again and remember, he is not those other guys.0