A guy i just started talking for about 2 weeks now, met last Saturday first time and it was at a birthday party he invited me too and we vibed well even with his 4 yr old son and he said that he wanted to take me out to dinner the next day Sunday and i said ok, and when that day came, he ended up canceling bc his mom came back early from out of town and it was her birthday so wanted to do something for her which i understand. Now its Wednesday and he has not mention anything about following up on that date, but we text and call each other everyday. Do i just need to be a little more patient?
Why isn't he following up on our first date?
What Guys Said 8
Since you're still communicating I'd be patient1
yes, no guarantees though right... he could be busy, distracted, have other dates going on... I don't think you are far enough along to have expectation of that second date and be exclusive to him. So I'd be open to anyone until he responds.
you could alternately ask him out... that will answer your question. I would not have a problem with it if you've been having all this conversation.0
Patience is a virtue, but dont wait too long, bring it up if you dont want to wait.1
Nobody is drowning more than a single working dad with a visiting mom, who may stay 1-10 nights, sometimes a babysitter relief, other times another baby to care for.
At least you have the texting connection, keep it up.
If this continues, YOU have a life to live as well and must develop that independently of his troubles... else you can be trapped into being 2nd or 3rd fiddle the rest of your life.0
its good be patient if he wasn't interested he would stop textin dont worry girl >:3 you will own him soon.0
why are you waiting on a guy after one date? go date other people in the meanwhile.0
Have you reminded him about the date he had to cancel, and ask if he wanted to try again soon?0
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What Girls Said 2
Yeah, it has only been a few days and he is still texting and calling. So, he will ask eventually I am sure.0
Or you can ask him out0