I can't believe people are saying not to waste your time!! It has been not even ONE day! Calm down! I would give him a week! You just met on an app and haven't even met in person or went out once. You just gave him your number ONE day ago and you want to unmatch him because he hasn't texted yet? He has a life and did not jump when you gave him your number, that is a good thing. I would not want a guy that is that eager, he would come across as desperate. If this is indicative of how you act when dating, I would recommend playing it cool and taking your time with all of it. Guys will get scared off if you want so much so soon.
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Wait. i mean, its only been one day and this day is not even over yet lol Be patient. He may not want to come off desperate by texting so soon or he is purposely waiting a fee days til he does or he just hasn't come around to it. So dont worry about it. You just gave it to him. he does not have to reach you right away. He barely knows you but if he is really interested, he will text. Give it 2 more days. Now a week, i can see you asking this question but way too early to be assuming anything.
So whats makin you kind of interested?
Well it's only a day, sometimes people don't check out the aapps for days... Myself included.. Just leave it there, if the guy hasn't responded to you in a week or by the time he is back in your city, you can unmatch him.. but you can also send him a message and aask him for his, you know? You dont haave to sit there and wait for him to text you first. Take some initiative.
If after a week, he still doesn't respond to you, feeel free to delete him.
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Just go ahead, @mooonchild1994, And Text him First.
He may Want to see if you are "For Real," and in order to Get the Ball Rolling so No Current Sour balls in your Mouth, Make the First Move.
Don't be Hasty.. This just might be Tasty.
Good luck. xx
He doesn't want to look desperate or to smother you or he's nervous. Wait a day or two then move on. Nobody said you can't talk or date others you're not exclusive with him. He might just be looking for sex since your young and probably don't have kids like everyone else his age
It's only been a day, that's hardly much time. Is unmatch him if you want after a week or so. Just because he's 27 doesn't mean he's married.
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It really is not that serious, you did not develop anything beyond the intial conversation. Count your blessings and move on, a guy who is interested will show interest.
Gave him your number *last night*. I voted before reading the whole thing. My bad.
Give him the benefit of the doubt. 2 days.
If he texts you after that, I'd read the message and then delete it. Don't even bother saving his number.He might just be busy today. I'd wait at most 3 days... if he doesn't text tomorrow, message him on tinder, just to say hi. If he doesn't respond, I'd just move on. Hope it works out :)
he's probably playing it cool.
give it like another day or two.some guys have this dumb rule where they don't call a girl for two days or something. I mean it's tinder, you can't really expect much from tinder.. it's a bunch of guys playing with girls' emotions.
This is what i dont understand with women. There's no need to rush on things. The ball is in his court so just get on and continue swiping.
Wow, lol.
It's only been a day. You JUST gave it to him last night.
Unmatch if you want.
Sounds a bit childish to me though.I voted wait it out. Maybe he is actually busy today or he's playing it cool. Give it till tomorrow at least.
Wait another day. It's not a waste of your time because you can still talk to other guys in the meantime.
3 days is nothing, wait it out. But... keep continuing to pursue other guys. Don't act like your committed to a guy when you're not.
Just leave it and move on to someone else. Definitely don't wait around for hin
Oh my goodness, one *whole* day?
... are you kidding me? ( -_-)
That's all it takes for you to abort mission? You could at least try saying something on Tinder.wait it out lol youve got nothing to lose. maybe he got busy
That's why I don't give out my numbers online. If they want to talk to me, they can do so through inbox messages.
3 days doesn't sound like that much compared to what I usually hear about. Give him a week, perhaps.
quit wasting your time
Don't waste your time...
soo intense.. gawd
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