This guy on tinder messaged me. I wasn't that interested so I messaged and then stopped. He messaged me again the next day and I decided to talk to him. We messaged for 3 days. He states he's coming back to my city in 2 more weeks. We talked about meeting up to eat food. I asked him if he's going to continue messaging me on this app. He asks for my number. Gave it to him last night and he hasn't texted me all day today. I don't know if he's interested or not. I can't tell with guys these days. I try not to hold expectations so I need to know if I should wait it out for the day or hurry and unmatch him because my number is just sitting there. He's an older guy. 27 and I'm 21. I don't know if he's married or has a girlfriend and I HOPE not because I would cut him off completely. What should I do?
He doesn't want to look desperate or to smother you or he's nervous. Wait a day or two then move on. Nobody said you can't talk or date others you're not exclusive with him. He might just be looking for sex since your young and probably don't have kids like everyone else his age
I can't believe people are saying not to waste your time!! It has been not even ONE day! Calm down! I would give him a week! You just met on an app and haven't even met in person or went out once. You just gave him your number ONE day ago and you want to unmatch him because he hasn't texted yet? He has a life and did not jump when you gave him your number, that is a good thing. I would not want a guy that is that eager, he would come across as desperate. If this is indicative of how you act when dating, I would recommend playing it cool and taking your time with all of it. Guys will get scared off if you want so much so soon.
Wait. i mean, its only been one day and this day is not even over yet lol Be patient. He may not want to come off desperate by texting so soon or he is purposely waiting a fee days til he does or he just hasn't come around to it. So dont worry about it. You just gave it to him. he does not have to reach you right away. He barely knows you but if he is really interested, he will text. Give it 2 more days. Now a week, i can see you asking this question but way too early to be assuming anything.
"A" for Absolutely Or... Just go ahead, @mooonchild1994, And Text him First. He may Want to see if you are "For Real," and in order to Get the Ball Rolling so No Current Sour balls in your Mouth, Make the First Move. Don't be Hasty.. This just might be Tasty. Good luck. xx
Well it's only a day, sometimes people don't check out the aapps for days... Myself included.. Just leave it there, if the guy hasn't responded to you in a week or by the time he is back in your city, you can unmatch him.. but you can also send him a message and aask him for his, you know? You dont haave to sit there and wait for him to text you first. Take some initiative.
If after a week, he still doesn't respond to you, feeel free to delete him.