So I always believed that relationships were the way to go, how I was brought up and how I act, talk to one girl and grow a relationship. Guys keep telling me to give up with that and just sleep around and have fun, and I'm leaning towards doing that now not gonna lie. Am I the only one that feels like this?
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah , your parents brought you up well. If that's what your friends want to do, then so be it doesn't mean that you have to follow suit to them. Basically sleeping around won't give you a good name. . . maybe your friends will because your doing it to fit in better with the crowd and they'll turn it into a competition. But definitely not with women, you really will not be trusted. But don't give up yet, your still young at 19. Your younger than me and I still haven't found the right guy yet. I get a lot of sexuall frustration but I choose to fight it because sleeping around is not my style. I seem to attract the kind of guys that I don't want to. The slime balls, the guys that are already paired off or the socially awkward ones that just lurk about but never talk. I have not given up yet, but I've stopped looking. I'm trying a bit of reverse psychology, because when I look for it, I don't find what I'm looking for. So I'm hoping it happens when I least expect it to. For now, I'll make the most of being single.0
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Most Helpful Guy
Look, people are stupid and don't know what they want or how to think for themselves. The media brainwashes them and tells them what to buy, what to think and how to feel.
Technology has made everything almost instantaneous with instant gratification.
People rush in to things. It's been proven time and time again that when you rush or half ass something, or act off of emotional anger... you usually get shit results.
This is no different.
Look how many divorces there are much less in such a short length of marriage time. Coincidence? I think not. Again, stupid people rushing things they don't understand and or not even sure they want... all to satisfy. ... what? Loneliness? A void or space? Most probably don't know and can't answer that.0