I love my girlfriend and I know for a fact she loves me. She and I both work a good amount and only get to see each other mostly on weekends and maybe a night in the week if hours allow it. We have been talking about planning a trip away together but she is always using her vacation days to see her friends and puts me in the back seat when taking off. I get she has to see her friends and all that and we both need to do our own thing, but I can't ever plan time away with her. What do I do? How do I bring that up to her? I can't surprise her or anything as much as i want too. I don't want to book and spend money when its not able to happen.
Most Helpful Girl
Tell her what you need from her0
Most Helpful Guy
You're going to have to have a conversation with her. Tell her how it makes you feel when she doesn't make you a priority. Here is the reality I am always seeing where women say that men need to make them a priority, it goes both ways, if she can't do that then she has no business going with you and wasting your time.0