Simply put, I'm a cripple. I use an electric wheelchair to get around, but despite this, I'm fully independent. Everything works sexually, but still women seem put off. I understand it to be honest, I probably would if I was them too. I'm wondering though, who here would date a guy (or girl if you're that way inclined) who used a wheelchair?
Cheers in advanced for answering. (Pun intended)
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It's hypothetical, but I'm pretty sure I'd be OK with it. I tutored disabled people in college. There was one lady I had considered asking out. She wasn't severely disabled, but I don't think it would have mattered if it was more severe like a quadriplegic. We got along really well, and there was sexual attraction. So there was both sides.
Initial attraction is the first step. That's just the way it is. You need to get past that step. It might be an initial hurdle, but I truly believe that most people will see past your disability fairly quickly. I don't think it's a mountain you need to climb, just a small hill.1