Maybe women will like them when they are ready to settle down in their 30s but right now girls don't want you okay, so stop whining, if girls want bad boys they are gonna date them so don't get your panties In a wad over it, do nice guys not realize this?
Either they don’t get it or they are in complete and total in denial about the fact that their personality is unappealing to women in general for reasons that are greater than simply being “nice”. I’m willing to bet that these guys use the trait of niceness to compensate for whatever thrilling, adventurous, intensely appealing traits they don’t possess naturally. So they’re always just like, “Well I’m NICE: I should get the girl!!! >:( “ Nah. Doesn’t work like that. Having the most basic, minimal behavior of being a decent human being does not guarantee that a woman is going to want you or find you more desirable over another man. No woman wants to be with a boring pushover who’s not assertive, would let her walk all over him, is predictable to the point of being unimaginative and not exciting, and generally can’t excite her spirit.
Moms tell Guys to be Good as the other guy said. so they end up acting TOO GOOD. and end up getting used by girls. these are the guys who show that they have no backbone and end up getting "friendzoned."
Girls need to feel challenged, Teased and just need to have fun with then, this is what those guys refuse to understand. i dont have to change from a nice guy to a asshole to get girls. i can just stay my self which is the neutral of the 2. also they need to be forward. which most of these guys aren't
The bad boys and the girls who want them deserve each other. Do not expect the good men to be waiting patiently at bus stop for the day when the women grow a brain and realise that the nice guys (hate that term) are better relationship and husband material. A significant and increasing number of the good men are dealing with rejection and lonliness by walking away from women and becoming Men Going Their own Way (MGTOW). That is the reason behind the so-called man drought, about which women on the wrong side of 30 complain. The men are still out there, but they have been hurt so much for so long that they are no longer interested.
Pft I could care less)) I'm nice and adorable but i would be up for dating but I also love making money so I can support a family so that's my main goal. Nice guys as you say or punks how I say it. Will go through this why I make money. Bad boys will be punks. And I'll take the job opportunities they don't worry about ) hell all of you are punks! Pft!!! Haha I'm final ting slowly aging into my personality)))
They were told growing up that: - girls and guys were the same - that most guys are 'jerks' and girls hate that.
As guys, they are typically looking for ok looking and sweet. Since 'girls are the same', they assume girls are -also- looking for a boyfriend who is nice and sweet. On top of that, they keep hearing mots guys are jerks and pigs and never romantic. So... if girls want sweet guys, and sweet guys are rare, and they're sweet, they should be a catch! Older women often reinforce it and tell them what sweet little princes they are and how girls will love them.
Then they notice this isn't the case, and the first advice they get from women? Oh, those girls are superficial (or sluts) and the 'right type' of girls will LOVE them.
So basically, they lose it because every girl seems to be the 'wrong type' of girl.
Eventually many of them realize they've been fed shit for decades and hopefully get over it.
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