Let's say you like a girl. Wherever you go people always flirt with her. Would you blame her for other people's flirting behavior? Would it bother you? I am asking this because the guy I like gets annoyed when people flirt with me. He will ignore me afterwards and flirt with other girls on purpose. I am very sociable person but I always make sure other guys can see that I only like him. They do see it but they are still flirting with me, even his friends.
Then he's immature and dumb. I get where he's coming from though, because I've been that way before. You think that the person you like is giving off welcoming or inviting signals that make it seem like it's okay to flirt with them, so you get upset because you think they're actively doing something to invite the attention. But the truth is, that isn't always the case. You can't fully control what other people see or do. However, the way he responds to this by flirting with other people on purpose is silly.
I'm very trusting, so unless she showed any interest back, the effect might be building my pride for having her. Especially if she mentioned me to them, like "Sorry, but I'm taken. By boyfriend is over there."
Wouldn't bother me, neither would i blame her. While i wouldn't ignore you (childish) i'd keep my options open and talk to other women certainly. Always been taught to give out as much interest as i get - That means if you give me only 75% of your attention, you'll only get 75% of mine.
I probably would. You just shouldn't let them flirt with you. They can't flirt with you if you are not responding. My fisrt girlfriend sometimes used to flirt with guys when i was in the same area.. Used to call them sweet names she never said to me... When we broke up she accused ME of cheating! In my experience, these kind of girls are the worst kind and im not wasting my yime on one ever again