Yeah maybe it's because I am cheap, but I don't want to invest any money (which is getting more and more difficult to obtain) on women, in fact, people in general, that I am unsure if they like or don't like me. I think it's just like gambling. Also, buying women drinks boost up their egos even more, but money plays a bigger factor. I only want to invest money on someone who I know will like/love me. Besides I don't want to invest on someone who hasn't even earned it.
However, some argues that if a guy doesn't go to bars and buy drinks for women, then he is not trying hard enough. Or that he is just being a cheap person, which can hinder a relationship. Or simply, he is "no fun." Well what do you all think?
Most Helpful Girl
If you don't want to, you don't have to. You're not obligated to buy anyone a drink, and it doesn't make much difference in whether a girl's interested or not anyway. She is, or she isn't, and one drink won't do much to change that. Talking to her might.
Personally, I've bought drinks for people I don't know that well, just 'cause. Not because I'm trying to "invest" in them, but we're having a good time, they're cool to talk to, and people buy each other drinks sometimes. They've done the same for me, too.0
Most Helpful Guy
You want my HONEST ASS OPINION ! YOU'RE TOTALLY FUCKING RIGHT !
(to women reading my post, please cover your eyes for these next few words are super rude) DUDE... FUCK BITCHES... THEY EXPECT ALL KINDS OF SHIT, WTF? LIKE BITCH... this redbull vodka is 13 dollars, I could fill up a few gallons of gas in my GTI and go to work for a few days, but INSTEAD, NOOOOOOO... you want MEEE, to pay you a fucking drink, JUST to have an excuse to be able to talk to me. As if my personality is gonna go from I'm awesome, to I'm a worthless piece of shit, just cuz i didn't get you a drink. Bitch get your damn drink (again sorry ladies, but im being rude for a reason, ps: im actually a total gentleman when it comes down to it) but man I can't stand the ladies who EXPECT ONE. thats the key words here. If a girl didn't ask and I'm in the mood to get her a beer, thats a different story. I might not care about 5 bucks and lets just go hit it off IF, AND ONLY IF, i can tell you're SUPER COOL and already a blast to talk to. But Ifwe just met like 2 seconds ago and you ask me for a drink or expect me to buy you one... you can suck this dick. lol... no seriously... cuz I'm not about to watch you sip away 13 dollars and waltz back over to your girls. fuck that. If anything, i get girls to buy me a drink. Usually the challenge catches them off guard, they are surprised im so daring, and if they do, they're in it (the convo) for the right reasons. And then I reward that action later. Be it the best sex ever, or yA KNOW... just a drink lmao... but all in all... i dont EVER... buy girls drinks, unless we've been talking for a while and this isn't our first date. PERIOD.
ladies, once again, im sorry but I was referring to the "shitty" category of girls that think we're gonna serve everything on a golden platter and they rule the world... ya... no1
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