Yes, I am single. I just can't date right now I don't think. Not after last year. After last year I get super uncomfortable if a woman even looks at me in public and if a woman in public gets too close I freak out and move away from her. I am still trying to work through it all and get back to a level of feeling more comfortable around women again but it takes a long time and is very hard.
Honestly, mentally not ready for one because i have a lot of priorities and i cannot balance a relationship and school. Probably bumped into the right person but wrong timing because i cannot balance my emotions then expect myself to Ace a test in school the next day (ain't gunna happen). I just need to work on myself before i get involved with anyone else because relationships is like taking care of a child. Make sure it needs the attention, affection and everything else that builds something into being bigger and better. Ummm.. don't nobody got time for that.
Welp, I am again. It's because of distance and some other things. I'm happy about it though. It's been a little tough lately, but I'm over it now and can continue the single life happily. I'm young and attractive. I have the whole world ahead of me and there are plenty of fish in the sea.
- I don't go out much - Guys don't feel comfortable around me - I don't have male friends - I'm shy - Guys don't take me seriously, they don't see me as a potential girlfriend - I'm a black girl who lives in Europe
I am scared to be in a relationship and it is so rare for me to seriously even like someone, I do not go out at all or go clubbing, I am currently a homebody, i have no confidence in publicly showing how proud I would/ could of the guy I could potentially for interest in or relationship, I am afraid that if I ever were to ever like to get interested someone again I will end up hurt, I have not met the right person, I even when I got asked out I am scared to get emotionally invested.
these are some of the reasons till now as of why I am currently single
was healing from a broken heart, thought I'd never get over it. Long gone are the nights when I'd cry myself to sleep.. I'm waiting for someone I can fall in love with, but I'm much more careful this time around
Ye single cause the guys I've been interested in always have someone else in the end so I just step back and let them go LOL Also by this point I'm pretty happy being single. Got a lot of good friends to distract me at the moment.
I'm poor have no car so that kind of makes it difficult (especially for a man my age) plus I am very picky about women, she has to appeal to me on a mental level and many women don't, though to be fair I don't really get to much interaction with women so my pool is also fairly limited.
I am indeed I feel as though I have matured a lot slower than most guys so I am trying to enjoy my single life for a couple of years and be care free for a while 😂. Having said that sometimes I wonder whether or not I should start to conside looking for a relationship.
Maybe I was to closed off to make anything last in the past or maybe I seemed uncertain that and most of my time was spent studying witch isn't a bad thing. Now it's partly that my social circle is entirely male and my interests are very male dominated possibly also that I haven't tried speed dating yet I don't know if that would work but it seems like it might help if I get round to actually booking something?
I'm saving money to start my own business, and it's easier to save money when you're single, at least for me it is. If I was dating a chick I'd want to buy her things and take her places. And that means if have to redo my budget to allow for things like that. Which, of course, means I'd either have to make more money or put away less.
Yes, because I'm a pretty serious and stern person and I have poor humor. And there's the fact that I am an ethnic minority who only desires white women. But most white women don't like Asian men, they mostly prefer white or Latino men.
FOR NOW yes hahaha. Because my ex broke up with me like 10 months ago and I haven't met anyone I liked enough, although now there's someone I really like and she likes me too so I estimate I won't be single for that long...