So I've decided to start dating again after breaking up with my ex acouple months ago. I really don't want to be hurt again so as soon as I see something I don't like should I just run? Recently this one guy I was talking to did something that rubbed me the wrong way, so Immedialty cut him off. I used to give guy chances but I feel like I shouldn't anymore. Is this a good thing to just run at the first red flag?
Most Helpful Guy
It's all personal preference, and really learn what red flags are deal breakers as you go along and date more people. Here's what I recommend. Go on a few casual dates with guys, don't become exclusive with anyone, and you probably shouldn't hit the sack with any or at least most of them. Just get a feel of what different people are like. If you meet someone you really like, I'd keep at it, but if they throw a huge red flag- like clinginess is the thing I can't handle, then yeah, it might be best to move on.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah, if you aren't interested in a man with kids then you did the right thing. You're not out of line. Everyone has their own "deal breakers" and they aren't wrong to have. It's only wrong to lead someone on if they have one and you don't say/do anything right off the bat.0