I'm in college and most guys here want to hookup. I want a boyfriend with whom I can have a long term relationship. I've tried dating sites but they're all also looking for casual sex. I'm disappointed.
I had the same problem when I was in college. Dated 3 women. The first two just wanted to "have fun." The 3rd wanted a serious relationship. We dated for 4 years, but she was a bit too crazy for my liking. The best thing you can do is get to know them as a friend first. Get them to open up and tell you about what they want in a person.
Focus on college. There will be guys that want it you just haven't found them. Have you tried asking guys out? Example if you wait for the guys that ask you, they will likely only be looking for sex, the shy guys are more likely to want a relationship (in my opinion anyway). It will also come as guys get older. Most guys in college have enough going on they don't want a relationship on top of it all.
Sadly you may have to wait a few years, takes a while for guys to mature and grow up. Most guys that age prefer one nights stands over one romantic nights. Which is a shame because one nights are empty and they dont know what their missing. Most people take it for granted until its too late. Romance if dont right can be amazing
You look for guys that actually have a head on thier shoulderes, they normally aren't the ones partying they are normally the ones who are quite happy having a night in
I'm not much of a party goer, i don't mind the odd party here or there, but that's just not me, i see it as a bit pointless; i'm very mature for my age, i'm a 23 year old with the maturity of a 30 year old... it's a struggle at times
College is just the next stage of high school if you are willing to go into debt or your parents pay for you. So like on high school - you are doubly to find any men that would be a respectful husband. Worst until the rea world.
On another planet. Its funny how guys changed from wanting long term relationships in the past to just having causal sex. Its hard to find a guy like that. Funny how feminism was supposed to make women feel to not look like sexual objects but men today see women mostly as sex objects even more today than in history.
Older guys, less attractive guys, they ar everywhere, you just don't notice them.