I don't want to be obligated to hang out or play the whole dating games or texting each other and the drama I have seen in relationships, I don't like going through that stuff or having like I said obligations to hang out etc relationships, is it okay to live your life by yourself, the only reason is ask is because friends and family are starting to get concerned and keep asking if I'm getting a girlfriend or if there is something wrong, is it okay/normal?
Yes, that's normal. Relationships are not for everyone and it takes a lot of work. I think it's better to stay single than forcing yourself to get into a relationship just because your family wants to see you in one. If they really love you, they will respect your decision.