We have an 8 month relationship. I am one year younger than him. The problem is he is going to take an very important exam next year. And I don't wanna be a distraction for him. And the other year I am going to take this exam. We both should study and I kinda feel guilty for him and myself. Also I love him. :( What should I do? Please help. Thank you.
Most Helpful Guy
You guys have to have will power and he (and you when the time comes) has to focus on studying for that exam... but... you don't have to break up to do it? That may even make things worse because you'll be thinking about each other more because you don't really want it. Life happens, there will be distractions all the time in everything no matter what you do. It's the will power and how much one can focus on a task that determines how well they do. In other words, there's other distractions as well besides your relationship that could also get in the way if you let them.0
Most Helpful Girl
no. why would you feel you will be a distraction bc of a exam? no hun. As long as you know to let him study when he needs too and vice versa then it shouldn't be a problem. Thats part of a relationship. Your a team and a team helps each other by either helping him study and vice versa or letting him study when he needs to study to pass the exam.
Its all about communication, understanding and endurance esp if you love each other. Do not break up. That is very small and can be worked around with y'all still being together. You dont want to let any opportunity open up for someone else to come in. So hold on to him. y'all can do this :)0