I've been talking to this girl for a couple weeks, and i've been meaning to tell her I like he for awhile, so last night, I just felt the need to text her and let her know, not overly mushy or whatever, pretty matter of fact and to the point, because it's better to tell her now than later, she was probably asleep when I sent it so whatever, this morning I wake up and her response is "aw, that's so sweet" and we all know what that REALLY means, so what's wrong with me? this happens all the freaking time. I never get taken seriously. is it my personality? am I ugly? don't make enough money, not tall enough? what will it take to be taken seriously?
I think your jumping the gun here, I don't see how her saying "Aw that's so sweet" Lead you to begin questioning yourself like this, I've used the same line with guys i liked back so make sure that she's completely not interested, ( her saying it in words) before jumping to these conclusions.
She just doesn't have feelings for you. I think you're fine on looks and surely your wallet isn't the reason. I think you should just keep trying, you build character like this and eventually you'll be getting a different response
I think you might be showing your hand too early. Also, I don't see the point or benefit in talking to a girl for weeks without meeting and going out with her. Have a date or two before you tell her you like her, and do it in person.
Dude you don't tell a girl you like her unless you are 100% sure she likes you back.. especially via text ahah, just ask her out and try to create a mood for you to kiss her. But never tell a girl you like her before you've kissed her! (at least)
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