It's pretty bad. I'll start talking to a girl and we'll end up hooking up and I literally will be instantly bored. I start getting text from them and start slowly distancing myself making excuses and get to the point where I straight up ignore them. If I get nudes from a girl and she tells me or makes any signs that she is not actually willing to hook up then I'll just leave the situation. I know it sounds terrible but I don't know what is wrong with me. Real advice pls
Most Helpful Girl
There might be a thing from the past that's bothering you (affection issues, abuse) and that's making you scared of getting to know people. You might think you will hurt them or they will hurt you.
You may need to work on that with a therapist. I say this because the exact same thing was happening to me.
Therapy is not as scary as is sounds and it definetely helps.
Good luck! :)0
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Most Helpful Guy
You want the cold hard truth? You seem to just like chasing girls around but never wanting to stay.0