To keep this short, I recently told one of my close friends how I felt about her finally and while I was walking her home I asked her if she believes we could one day be together and the whole time she said "I don't know" or "maybe". So I took that as a positive since it wasn't a "No". We also recently came back from vacation with other friends and admittedly I was too afraid to make a move so I just enjoyed our vacation time together. However, during vacation the topic got brought up again by other friends and when they asked her how she felt about the way I felt she again was unsure. Now that we are back from vacation, I want to stop being afraid and to just be forward with her and take her out and tell her how I feel without the help that of alcohol. I catch her looking at me a lot and she is very playful around me so I feel like there is attraction between us. So I was wondering how should I go about asking her out?
Most Helpful Girl
Is there something she has been wanting to do for a while? Like going on some specific hike, or park. My thinking is that since you guys are already good friends, you don't need a date to get to know each other, but rather something that will change your routine, get the adrenaline pumping to boost that romantic feel. If you guys are 21 also red wine can be pretty romantic somewhere outside or in a wine bar. The manner in which to ask her, maybe you can tell her that you've got a surprise for her? ( But let her know whether to dress casual or not... ). Good luck!0
Most Helpful Guy
You could simply ask her out... I'm glad I stumble across this question because I'm going through something similar.. I have liked this friend of mine and I'm trying to figure out is she is interested back.. she's playful with me and we joke and take things lightly and we can get in somewhat deep convos at times when serious questions are asked.. now I have no idea how I'm gonna tell her I like her.. I'm doubtful0