My boyfriend of 2 years moved out 4 weeks ago, as we were fighting too much, but decided to still stay together. 3 weeks ago he left to another state for a project, but before he left we got into another fight and he said "leave me alone". We haven't talked up until a few days ago, when he told me about the stress of his job and was flirty with me. He came back to his place 3am last night, and we discussed dinner tonight, and he said "I have a 7:00am meeting, so I want to see you, but might be too tired, I will take a nap". Just a few minutes ago he told me that he is going to take a nap, yet mentioned 0 about dinner. I am so frustrated, I know he is upset and hurt after our fight, be we haven't seen each other/talked for 3 months!! Do I have the right to be upset or am I just not understanding?
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I don't see why, isn't that usually what happens after a fight? You can be upset or angry if you want, but not at him.
If you weren't expecting things to be or go a certain way, you wouldn't get disappointed, which would mean you wouldn't get upset or angry, which will mean there will be no fight, which will mean there will be no 3 month hiatus.
I'd say at this point, work on that, and give him some space. Im sure he's not upset, but is trying to get away for now.0