There's a guy I know that is so nice to me unlike any other guys I've met but he's not attractive. I like him and his personality is so sweet and I love his shyness, but when one of my friends heard a joke about us she reacted like "eww" and now I'm a little confused... because I really like him and I think his looks are okay but I would'n want to feel awkward every time I would hang out with my friends. Should I give him a chance?
Take it from my experience. The first time i met my boyfriend, i thought he was ugly, but he had a thing. And my friends thought he was ugly too. I gave him a chance, and we've been together now for more than an year, im crazy about him, he's everything i want, and im very attracted to him, and i think he's really beautiful. And in the beginning i did care a little the fact that he wasn't really handsome, and I've dated hot guys, much hotter.. not trying to brag it's just a fact. But later i didn't give a shit, he is so amazing to me that i wanna show the whole world how amazing he is, how lucky i am to be his girl <3 Don't judge him before you get to know him, he might be one hell of a guy
I think you should. If you like him and he makes you happy then why would you care about what your friends think? They won't be the ones dating him and the important thing is that YOU find him attractive. Be it because of his looks or his personality, it doesn't matter.
I was in a very similar situation once and I regret I didn't do anything about it. There was this one guy who really wasn't my type but for some reason I felt attracted to him from the first time I saw him. I don't know what it was but I certainly felt it, and I'm pretty sure he felt it too. He was always so nice and friendly and just being with him made me happy. I'm not kidding, I felt like a schoolgirl experiencing her first crush. Too bad he had a girlfriend at the time because no other guy had ever made me feel this way. Chemistry is a funny thing for sure... Sometimes you have it and sometimes you don't. So if I were you I'd go for it :)
Yeah beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Don't dismiss this guy just because your friends might not think he is attractive. Who cares what they think! This is your life and your happiness, date whomever YOU like. Initially they might think it's weird but once they see how happy you two are (if it works out) then they will learn to accept it, if they really are true friends. But don't be embarrassed! the guy doesn't deserve that. He deserves someone who thinks he is the greatest. I mean imagine if someone were dating you and were too embarrassed to have you around. That would be hurtful.