Ok this one guy is constantly telling me how beautiful I am and how he wants to hang out etc etc but then there are times where he is kinda mean... like he is joking but sometimes it is just insulting and he seems like an ass.
Why do some guys do this?
Most Helpful Guy
I'd tease my female freinds but I don't insult them on purpose. What kind of insults is he telling you?0
Most Helpful Girl
Guys don't want to express their feelings so openly, and neither do girls.
Many guys use ''mean in a joking way'' as their means of showing interest in a girl. Because it leaves the girl wanting to find out if he likes her, and it also gets the girl to talk to him in a similar way. And that can make it feel less awkward for both sides.
If a guy is jokingly mean to a girl, it can mean that he treats everybody that way. It can also mean that he's just a jerk and not worth your time anyway.
Every guy is different. There's no telling for certain what it means unless you ask.
Wishing you the best of luck.