There was this single mom 27 with 2 kids that seemed to like me. Before I asked her out I asked her close friend if she was interested in me. She said that she told her that I was cute. In addition to this she was flirty with me and touchy. When I asked her out she said that honestly she is not ready to date and needs to focus on raising her young kids. She said that I was young for her kids. She said that I was a great and awesome guy. I understand all of what she said. But she gave off signs like she was interested in me. She told her friend that she thought I was cute. Was she just attracted to me physically? I really liked her and kind of bummed out that she turn me down. I'm over her now. But now thinking about it was probably best I didn't get with her. Thoughts?
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she was probably only attracted to your look. I don't think i could ever get serious with a single mom though, largely because its a lose/lose scenario for the guy. If she's a good person, her kids with always be her #1 priority, which means you will almost always have to take a backseat and will be relied upon more often than not to help raise her kids some time down the road. Now if she does make you a priority, it means that she's not a good mom, and probably not that great a person either, making her fairly untouchable if you have any functioning brain cells. So all in all, don't be bummed. I think you dodged a bullet there. Many non mothers out there who are just as good or better than this one1