Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 years now. I let him have his space and he lets me have mine but we still would talk and all that. Well here lately he never wants to pay attention to me. I will try and talk to him and he will say he has to go somewhere or someone asked him for help. And he has been hanging out with this other girl here lately. And I don't know what to do. Should I ask him what's wrong and still try to fix it. Or just wait to see what he does. Or break up with him. I don't know and I need help.
Most Helpful Guy
i would wait and see how it plays out, because jumping the gun will make you a bit presumptuous and not trusting and that could push them further away if there is already a problem. if there is a problem when it happens just go , the chance to fix is over if they end up with someone else.1
Most Helpful Girl
First things First, @Savannah2001, You and your So have a lot of Good years here, dear, Invested in this Relationship. You both have Grown together, But many times during These Teen years, Couples Can and Do... Grow apart at the heart.
Sit your Soul mate down and have a Long Serious convo with him and Both of you get on the same page with no rage. Find out what is bothering him and what is up with 'This other girl here lately,' So you know what you Both need to do at this time in Space.
I am seeing a boy who may want more than 'His space,' But possibly More freedom that he is scared to Come Clean with you because he doesn't want to Hurt you.
Have that Talk soon, It's not to late to try And... Compromise.
Good luck. xx0