I'm an 18y/o guy an people tell me I'm attractive. A couple girls said I was was about a 7 and one said I was a nine. I thought i was attractive, but only girls I don't find attractive like me. I know looks aren't everything, but I have a good personality. Are people lying to me?
Most Helpful Girl
Why do you care? You should focus on waiting and finding a woman that makes you happy.
IF you're really concerned about it, post a pic in the "How do I look" section asking for opinions/ratings.
JUST to be fair, they can be harsh. So be prepared.1
Most Helpful Guy
Whether they are lying or not, their opinions are only opinions. Where you think you scale shouldn't matter unless you buy into the whole "I rate here, therefore I can only obtain this" mentality. Be confident with yourself, don't pull your confidence from 2nd and 3rd party opinions, and go after what you want.1