I am in a wheelchair and everytime I meet someone from online dating sites, they treat me badly. They usually end the date early or they just plain freak out. I am not sure why this is. I mean I tell them about my being paralyzed from the get go; so they know what they are getting into before asking me out. Should I just give up dating all together?
Why do guys ditch me on blind dates?
What Guys Said 4
I think it's a blessing in disguise. Obviously those guys are idiots and can't read well if you stated you were in a wheelchair and they freaked out. I don't think you should give up. I have a friend at work that is in a wheelchair and she goes on dates and had a few long-term relationships.2
Perhaps you aren't as pretty as they expected you to be, could be the main reason.
Being paralyzed might be secondary.
I would instead give you a hug right now. :)0
I am sorry for those bad experiences. It's not all guys, it's just those guys who agreed to meet with you when they weren't all in. I don't think you should give up altogether though, not if it's something you still really want.1
What Girls Said 2
They're stupid. You said you make it clear, so they should know.
They don't sound sensitive, just like jerks.
Don't give up!0
Maybe they just realize they do not want to deal with such responsibility.0
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