First of all I am black myself. Am I attracted to black girls? Yes. I have dated women from all different cultures and I rate them all the same. If I am physically and mentally attracted to her I consider dating her.
I don't know you but I can tell you what's on my mind.
Sorry to go into stereotypes but it is exactly that stereotype that is sadly working against black women. People have the perception that black women are loud and have a bad attitude. Some are and some are not. And even more sadly the ones that are like this mistakenly think that this is what a strong woman is like. Like I said I don't know you but if that is you walk away from that image.
I see around me that the black women that portrait that image are very unsuccessful in dating. The ones that don't portrait that image are constantly dating. Maybe more than the white women I know.
Also try and take the folloingout of your mind. When I was a teenager I used to think that undateable because I was black. Unlike now in those days black men had absolutely no positive image in the media. But at a certain point I noticed that it was my own negative thinking that made me undateable. I stopped looking at color so I no longer saw it as an obstacle. And since then my dating life completely turned around.
Just see yourself as an attractive woman and things will turn around.
I feel like a lot of black women are single by choice... I rarely meet someone that can't get into a relationship, it's understandable. Wanting to meet the right man, and not playing games is a common focus.
yes i do there attitudes are what i like , i mean they talk shit when they are mad at you. i mean there worse than any white girl could be i suppose lol, but thats just me. i would date any race but if i had to go with a more openly opinionated girl i would go for a black woman.
I personally never have found a black woman attractive to me, not even Beyoncé etc. I can tell some have beautiful features if that makes sense but the attraction simply isn't there for me. It's not really a conscious 'I don't want to date black' thing but a subconscious, I think humans regardless of how educated tend to view things different than themselves with caution whether we know it or not and while we've grow to accept races for the most part intimacy is closely held its still holding on tight for many myself included, to stay close to its own race if that makes sense. Just my personal take and thoughts towards black women. (White guy)
I find black women very attractive. The only problem that I've ever had with them is that 70% of them have kids from a broken marriage or relationship. I've made my views on dating single mothers abundantly clear. I don't do it ! I'm not tolerating being #2 and deal with a crazy motherfucker of a baby daddy ! No way Jose !
As a Jamaican American, my answer would be no. Most black women from what I seen tend to fit the stereotype. They chase after thugs , not open minded, confrontational, aggressive and loud. I tend to have a different perspective way of thinking compared to other blacks, so they find me attractive which doesn't bother me much. I also personally don't find them as attractive as Hispanic, Middle eeastern and European women which is why I don't approach them on public.
Yes many are attractive, but I would only date one if we have a lot in common.
I'm a black guy and yeah I love black women. I find them to be amazing personally, but there can be some cons tbh. I'm not saying for all black women but for some there seems to be a stigma possibly because some black girls have kind of a stank additude. Some could be a bit ghetto man but for the most part that could come from the environment. With most black girls and a lot of girls in general focusing on monogamy it brings a shift in which relationships aren't really serious anymore. Hookups are more common and very serious relationships seem to dwindle. What's your type exactly? Maybe I could help you out.
I'm not into the whole hip hop/ghetto thing, and most black women where I live fall into that.
A well educated, well read, and well spoken black woman? I would have no qualms about dating such a woman.