My boyfriend and I just broke up because he is "afraid" of me getting pregnant. He doesn't want to use condoms and I don't want to go on birth control. He has told me to remain the same and not to get involved with anyone as he will be back to me when "the time is right." Like WTF? Of course I'm really hurt by the breakup but I also think it's a really stupid reason to break up. He still calls me everyday at the exact same times he used to and tells me how much he loves. What does all this mean? Excuse my French but what kind of mind fuckery is this?😔😔😶😶
Most Helpful Guy
Your boyfriend should really just go fuck himself.
But seriously? I think he should just get a vasectomy instead if he doesn't want to ever use condoms. It would be dumb to always expect which ever lady or women he would be fucking to not get pregnant if he refuses to ever use condoms or any other kind of contraception.
I think you guys are on a break. Just leave it as it is for now. Ask if he ever really want kids and if he don't then suggest that he go for the more permanent options such as vasectomy. Win win situation since it's a one time deal and it's no longer a burden to you to have to spend on and constantly use birth control.1
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Most Helpful Girl
... I think it's a really stupid reason to break up.
He is making lame duck "Dick" Excuses for Not being Hooked at the Hip with you, @Maishasafari, I can Read him like a Look Book. And with Putting you and your Sex life, Both on as Back Butt Burner here, dear, It gives him plenty of Time down the Fish Line, To Snag another one on his Trusty Hook To.. Look.
What I mean by all of this, Is he may be looking for another maybe Not 'He is "Afraid" girl who is either on The Pill or Someone with even a One Night Stand who he could care less about Who Is.
It's hard now to Totally Trust him with what he May Say, And although for the Time being he is calling at the 'Exact same times he used to.." That Might... Not remain the same.
You need to tell him that you are not going to wait around Forever... He needs to make up his mind. You both were this couple once, And although there didn't seem to be any Compromising, Maybe too, He is Holding this Coy boy Carrot over your nose until you cry "Wolf" and You are the One to then Run to go Get... Birth control.
Good luck. xx
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