My boyfriend and I just broke up because he is "afraid" of me getting pregnant. He doesn't want to use condoms and I don't want to go on birth control. He has told me to remain the same and not to get involved with anyone as he will be back to me when "the time is right." Like WTF? Of course I'm really hurt by the breakup but I also think it's a really stupid reason to break up. He still calls me everyday at the exact same times he used to and tells me how much he loves. What does all this mean? Excuse my French but what kind of mind fuckery is this?😔😔😶😶
Your boyfriend should really just go fuck himself.
But seriously? I think he should just get a vasectomy instead if he doesn't want to ever use condoms. It would be dumb to always expect which ever lady or women he would be fucking to not get pregnant if he refuses to ever use condoms or any other kind of contraception.
I think you guys are on a break. Just leave it as it is for now. Ask if he ever really want kids and if he don't then suggest that he go for the more permanent options such as vasectomy. Win win situation since it's a one time deal and it's no longer a burden to you to have to spend on and constantly use birth control.
... I think it's a really stupid reason to break up. He is making lame duck "Dick" Excuses for Not being Hooked at the Hip with you, @Maishasafari, I can Read him like a Look Book. And with Putting you and your Sex life, Both on as Back Butt Burner here, dear, It gives him plenty of Time down the Fish Line, To Snag another one on his Trusty Hook To.. Look. What I mean by all of this, Is he may be looking for another maybe Not 'He is "Afraid" girl who is either on The Pill or Someone with even a One Night Stand who he could care less about Who Is. It's hard now to Totally Trust him with what he May Say, And although for the Time being he is calling at the 'Exact same times he used to.." That Might... Not remain the same. You need to tell him that you are not going to wait around Forever... He needs to make up his mind. You both were this couple once, And although there didn't seem to be any Compromising, Maybe too, He is Holding this Coy boy Carrot over your nose until you cry "Wolf" and You are the One to then Run to go Get... Birth control. Good luck. xx
well, i think what he did was right. if he's not ready for kids and ur sexually active but not protecting urself, then thats a good idea to just break up. its not fair to him, if you get prego when he doesn't want to be a father yet. get over yourself
wow that is so messed up on so many levels. That was the only reason why he was with you if he is breaking up with you bc of sex and not willing to compromise. That is a very immature and selfish thing to do. If he really loved you as he says, he would never leave you esp for something so ridiculous like that
This is eye opening for you. He was only around for sex and now he wants to go raw with it and bc you both dont want to do what it would take to enjoy it bare, he leaves you and says hell be back when he can go bare? What a jerk. That is not love.
Sounds like manipulation. It almost seems like he's trying to get you to do what he wants by breaking up with you and making you fear that you might lose him if you do not agree to having sex without condoms. That's not cool and it's an indication of deeper problems and more problems to come later on! It really just seems like he calls you every day to still keep you emotionally hooked like he's trying to keep you available in hopes that you'll change your mind.
He's crap. You need to block him off your phone. He just seems crazy. To continue calling you after a break up? Unacceptable, especially when he is the one who caused a problem to result in a break up.