Ok so I'm quite small, in height and figure. I went on a date with a guy who was a bit talker than me but quite a bit heavier set also. I like him and we've agreed to go on a second date the only thing I have my reservations about is that he's gained quite a bit of weight from his picture (we met online). He's not bad looking and we had a kiss and it felt so right, like it was the best kiss i think I've ever had! Which is why I'm now so confused? He's not my usual type as I usually go for smaller guys who are toned as I'm so heavily into fitness, but there's just something about him, we've text every day since the first date, we have a lot in common and he seems to be compatible with my weirdness. In the past I've always gone for jerks just cause they're good looking, so I'm not used to being treated as nicely as he treated me either! What do I do? :/
Most Helpful Guy
I think you've just discovered "your type" that you didn't realize before honestly. Don't let his weight stand in the way and be an issue. You seem to really like him otherwise. As your relationship progresses he is likely going to want to loose some for you anyway on his own (when he was single he didn't care, maybe even had some depression?, so likely why he gained the weight). And if not, as you guys get to know each other better you can maybe suggests workouts? Don't phrase it to him "you need to loose weight" but "I'm going for a workout, want to join me?" It can be something you do together maybe.2
Most Helpful Girl
I have Dated and Mated many in Relationships, @LifeIsStrange, And Yes.. I have date a heavier person.
He was a bit Chubby, But Cute as a Care Bear, And he had a Great sense of humor and a most amazing personality.
It's what Counts on the Inside, Not on the Out, Is what it is all About.
I like your Analogy, Many times you are Right. You are finding out that Personality is a Highlight.
Good luck and Great going. xx1
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