When ever I [19/f] get mad because of something he [ 23/M] did (And would get mad at, if I did it) he just gets mad and starts being verbally agresive.
I'm wondering, can it be fixed? or should I start considering to end the relationship?
Most Helpful Guy
My ex was like that, and she was really controlling and manipulative. So this seems like a huge red flag to me. I understand him getting defensive, as that is just normal when you get angry with people, but it sounds like you know that isn't the case here.
I think you already know you should end it, which is why you are asking this question. If you aren't even allowed to be angry when he does something wrong, it is probably time to move on.2
Most Helpful Girl
Full Circle Problem Pattern, I refer to this as, @girlwithmind
It will Never really Change, And the only way things 'Can be fixed,' Is if You... Fix your Mad Hatter Head to Please him. A No Win situation.
It's your Choice, The ball is in your own Court. But just realize, That He will only get Worse as he gets Older and more Bolder.
Good luck. xx0