My boyfriend of 2 years and I have been fighting so he moved out 1 month ago. 3 weeks ago we got into a fight he said "i need to be left alone", then left out of state for a work project. We started talking a few days ago, he told me that he wants to see me. Well he got back Monday, and went MIA. I asked about dinner and he said "you've hurt me and I try to forget but I can't etc". I wrote him a long message stating that I've been seeing a therapist, and that we need to be adults and at the very least talk. But he is ignoring me! I mean he has his things at my place, our photo on his facebook!!! What can I do to get him to at the very least respond to me?
*please don't tell me to move on and forget about him... I love him*
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Respect his wishes and give him space.
He needs time to "heal" from whatever happened. Don't be "clingy" (sorry for lack of a better word here).
You're still in a relationship, your photo is still on FB. So, he still loves you, that's clear.
It's hard. Know that the space you give him now, may allow you 2 a LONG and happy future together.
---- What's a few weeks now compared to years of potential happiness?0
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